Advanced #1610 己所不欲，勿施于人

    孔夫子曾经说过“己所不欲，勿施于人”。这句话的意思是：自己不想要的东西，千万不要强加给别人。这句话是儒家思想的精华，也是中华民族根深蒂固的信条，它揭示了处理人际关系的重要原则。然而在现实中许多人都不能恪守“己所不欲，勿施于人”的原则，一切以个人利益为中心，只顾及自身的感受，而忽略了他人的感受。

    人应该有宽广的胸怀，待人处事之时切勿心胸狭窄，而应宽宏大量，宽恕待人。倘若自己所讨厌的事物，硬推给他人，不仅会破坏与他人的关系，也会将事情弄得僵持而不可收拾。人与人之间的交往确实应该坚持这种原则，这是尊重他人，平等待人的体现。人生在世除了关注自身的存在以外，还得关注他人的存在，人与人之间是平等的，切忌将己所不欲施于人。

Confucius has said that” Treat others as you would like to be treated”, which means that do not impose on others what you do not desire yourself. This is the essence of the Confucianism and it is also the firm belief of Chinese nation, which reveals an important principle to deal with interpersonal relationship. However, not everybody can stick to this principle in the reality. All they do is for their own interest and their own feeling, and what others feel has nothing to do with them.
People should be more lenient instead of being mean when they are dealing with people and stuff. If we push the stuff we hate to others, not only will the relationship be ruined, but also the situation will be a mess. That’s why we should stick to this principle. It is a good way to show your respect to others and treat others equally. People should care about others instead of only themselves. All men are born equal. Remember that treat others as you would like to be treated